SUMMARY
A former middle school science teacher and current psychology PhD student shares her journey with a brain tumor, emphasizing gratitude over the fight narrative.
IDEAS
- “Kiss your brain” ritual promotes gratitude and self-appreciation among students.
- Positive psychology investigates strengths and factors for individual and community thriving.
- Brain imaging excitement turned to fear upon discovering a large mass in the brain.
- Embracing gratitude over the fight narrative can reshape one’s experience with illness.
- Gratitude practices can lead to increased happiness and decreased depression.
- Gratitude has physical benefits like a stronger immune system and less pain.
- Expressing gratitude releases dopamine and serotonin, improving mood.
- Gratitude helps regulate stress hormones and manage negative emotions.
- Neuroplasticity allows the brain to form new neural connections throughout life.
- Practicing gratitude can strengthen neural pathways, making it easier over time.
- Writing thank-you notes to healthcare heroes fosters a sense of appreciation.
- The fight narrative can be empowering but may not suit everyone.
- Loving your body unconditionally can build resilience.
- Gratitude can help cognitively restructure harmful thoughts.
- The speaker’s journey highlights the importance of gratitude in adversity.
- Awareness and research on brain tumors and cancer are crucial.
- Practicing gratitude daily can bring peace and positivity.
- The speaker’s experience underscores the irony of studying well-being while facing illness.
- Gratitude can transform one’s vision of illness and disability.
- The speaker’s story encourages others to find their own way through challenges.
INSIGHTS
- Gratitude practices can rewire the brain for resilience and positive emotions.
- Embracing gratitude over fighting can reshape one’s experience with illness.
- Neuroplasticity allows intentional practice to strengthen gratitude pathways in the brain.
- Writing thank-you notes fosters appreciation and strengthens relationships.
- Gratitude helps manage stress hormones and negative emotions effectively.
- Practicing gratitude daily can bring peace and positivity even in adversity.
- Loving your body unconditionally builds resilience against challenges.
- Awareness and research on brain tumors are crucial for better understanding and treatment.
- The fight narrative may not suit everyone; alternative approaches like gratitude exist.
- Gratitude can transform one’s vision of illness, focusing on positive aspects.
QUOTES
- “Kiss your brain for all the work they did in class as a practice of gratitude.”
- “Positive psychology investigates the strengths and factors that allow individuals and communities to thrive.”
- “I have never been more scared in my life than I was that night.”
- “I kissed my brain every single day leading up to and after surgery.”
- “I hated the idea that I was going to be at war with my brain.”
- “Gratitude became the tool that helped me restructure my vision of illness and disability.”
- “The more I practice gratitude, the more peace I felt my situation.”
- “Expressing gratitude helps us regulate stress hormones.”
- “Neuroplasticity refers to our brain’s ability to form new neural connections throughout life.”
- “Practicing gratitude can actually wire our brains to help us build resilience.”
- “I write down three things I’m grateful for and why I’m grateful for them every morning.”
- “I write thank you notes to my heroes in health care.”
- “Loving your body doesn’t have to be conditional.”
- “We need more awareness and more research regarding brain tumors and brain cancer.”
- “By practicing gratitude, we can actually wire our brains to help us build resilience.”
HABITS
- Kiss your brain daily as a practice of gratitude and self-appreciation.
- Write down three things you’re grateful for every morning, including why you’re grateful for them.
- Write thank-you notes to healthcare heroes or those who support you regularly.
- Focus on what your body does right instead of what it does wrong.
- Practice gratitude even when it seems impossible or challenging.
FACTS
- Positive psychology investigates strengths and factors for individual and community thriving.
- Gratitude practices can lead to increased happiness and decreased depression.
- Expressing gratitude releases dopamine and serotonin, improving mood.
- Gratitude helps regulate stress hormones and manage negative emotions.
- Neuroplasticity allows the brain to form new neural connections throughout life.
REFERENCES
- Positive psychology
- Neuroplasticity
- Medial prefrontal cortex
- Dopamine
- Serotonin
ONE-SENTENCE TAKEAWAY
Embracing gratitude over fighting can rewire the brain for resilience, transforming one’s experience with illness.
RECOMMENDATIONS
- Kiss your brain daily as a practice of gratitude and self-appreciation.
- Write down three things you’re grateful for every morning, including why you’re grateful for them.
- Write thank-you notes to healthcare heroes or those who support you regularly.
- Focus on what your body does right instead of what it does wrong.
- Practice gratitude even when it seems impossible or challenging.